Harrrassment-Redefined

So ladies and non ladies, i have been thinking very seriously about this topic and came to the most important aspect. 

Harrassment is defined as the un wanted and unprecedented flirting you do with married guys, have you ever thought about how much they suffer after you make the advances towards poor, wretched souls. You need to understand that men are the weaker sex, otherwise God would have had them bear a child, but No, you girls think about yourself only and make the advances towards the poor, innocent souls. Yes they have no control over themselves and their desires, yes they cannot think straight after they see a woman smiling at them, yes they cant help it but fall for you, but that doesnt mean you should exploit them. Have you ever thought how many days the poor married guy has to live without the S** when his wife discover you are having an affair with him?? have you ever thought how the miserable soul live these many days without having S**...No, you selfish girls only think about yourselves.

So kindly stop making Lustful advances towards the weaker sex, just accept the fact that they cannot control themselves, so it is your responsibility to tame your shrewedness.

Stay Safe.

Self Respect

Two weeks ago, an imature kid made me realize that i have been mature enough my whole life, cause i know how to be better than others, and specially his kind. 

Little did i realize ever that me and my school mates from Grade 2 till 10 have possessed the highest quality of character that even the most groomed and aged women does not achieve before certain age. 

Self Love! Self Respect! 

We were about 13 girls who started knowing each other in grade 2 and been together for 8 years of school. We fought, too much, we annoyed teachers, students even seniors. We used to play cricket like no one is watching, and similarly we used to take pictures like no one else exist. We never cared about being called "difficult" because we never disappointed our teachers in studies. So we basically earned that privilige. Once we got the boys locked up in a class room for 30 minutes, because we wanted to finish our 4 overs cricket match. But with all those years of togetherness and time, there was one common denominator we still have, and may be it was in our personalities and we never realized it. 

We never dressed up or looked good for any person, we always and still are doing for ourselves. 

We communicated with each other on and off when school was over but after few years, when we met and talked to each other, i noticed this that we have been the same in this personality trait, that we love ourselves and we always present ourselves how we want us to be, not how someone has told us. We dress up in ways that we like, we let our hair down or up as we want to.  From rougish tom boys to hot professionals (yes we all are hot) we elevated our ranks and changed our looks the way we like them. And not how my husband or her boyfriend asked us to be. Just how i want to look.

So dear girls, going through a phase or endless agony of whether you will be accepted or not, mark my words, you need to love and respect yourself, above all and that makes you glow, far better than the servants of acceptance.